Fireworks are probably the most identifiable event for Fourth of July. Fireworks have been associated with Fourth of July since 1777. Firework shows are held in many states and families and groups even buy them for private use. Fireworks are often accompanied by singing or music of patriotic songs.
The history of fireworks goes back thousands of years to China during the Han dynasty (~200 B.C.), even long before gunpowder was invented. It is believed that the first "firecrackers" were likely chunks of green bamboo, which someone may have thrown onto a fire when dry fuel ran short. The rods sizzled and blackened, and after a while, unexpectedly exploded. Bamboo grows so fast that pockets of air and sap get trapped inside of the plant's segments. When heated, the air inside of the hollow reeds expands, and eventually bursts through the side with a long bam!
The strange sound, which had never been heard before, frightened people and animals terribly. The Chinese figured that if it scared living creatures so much, it would probably scare away spirits - particularly an evil spirit called Nian, who they believed to eat crops and people. After that, it became customary for them to throw green bamboo onto a fire during the Lunar New Year in order to scare Nian and other spirits far way, thus ensuring happiness and prosperity to their people for the remainder of the year. Soon, the Chinese were using bursting bamboo for other special occasions, such as weddings, coronations, and births. The "bursting bamboo", or pao chuk as the Chinese called it, continued to be used for the next thousand or so years.
Although now we don’t use the explosives to scare off spirits but to celebrate our spirit! We did not get the idea from the Chinese but the Italians. the Italians had been fascinated with fireworks ever since the explorer Marco Polo brought back firecrackers from the Orient in 1292. During the Renaissance in Europe (1400-1500), the Italians began to develop fireworks into a true art form. Since this was a period of artistic creativity and expression, many new fireworks were created for the first time. Military rockets could be modified by adding powered metals and charcoal in order to create bursts of gold and silver sparks in the sky.
The Italians were able to develop aerial shells - canisters of of explosive composition that were launched into the sky and exploded at the maximum altitude (the Chinese also developed shells that were spherical in shape). However, the most spectacular firework displays were still those made at ground level. Firework makers discovered how a special slower-burning gunpowder mix could be put in an open-ended tube, which would give off sparks when lit. The dense showers of bright sparks resembled water spewing from a fountain, so the new pyrotechnic device was named accordingly. If rocket engines were attached to a wooden wheel framework, it would spin around rapidly and give off sparks in a circular pattern. Sculptors would carve giant, detailed models of castles or palaces, which would be adorned with fountains, wheels, and torches. These "temples", as they were called, were a beautiful and crowd-pleasing sight when ignited. Such displays became in high demand throughout Europe. The idea of controlled fire was fascinating to all, and kings saw no better way to show their wealth and power then by having fireworks at their religious festivals, weddings, and coronation ceremonies.
These firework displays grew more and more elaborate over the years, employing the work of carpenters, metalworkers, masons, and painters to help construct the temples. Firemasters learned that the effects of fireworks could be greatly enhanced by setting them on small floats in water, where more light and noise would be reflected back towards the audience. Starting in the early 1530s, fireworks would usually be ignited by "green men", a term given to firemasters who covered their faces in soot and dressed in leaves in order to both protect themselves from sparks and be hard to see as they ran around lighting fuses. From 1500-1700, the most popular type of firework was the "dragon". The massive device consisted of a wooden framework which was covered in painted paper-maché scales. Inside, it was loaded with fountains, firecrackers, and rockets, some of which would shoot out of the mouth to make it "breathe fire". Often times, two or more dragons would be constructed and aimed at each other as they ignited to "battle".
Around the 1730s, firework shows in England became huge public displays rather than just the private entertainment of royalty. People from all over Europe would come to witness the spectacular fireworks displays at amusement parks in Britain. The discovery of "quick match" - a fast-burning fuse made by putting regular fuse into a small, continuous paper tube - gave firemasters the ability to ignite many fireworks simultaneously, and enabled the construction of set pieces. Set pieces are giant pictures/words made from hundreds of small burning torches, which were often created in the likeness of popular figures such as royalty.
Settlers brought fireworks over to the Americas around the 1600s, where they continued to be used to celebrate special occasions and to impress or scare off Native Americans. The very first 4th of July celebration was in 1777, only one year after the signing of the Declaration of Independence. The United States was still in the midst of the Revolutionary War and the outcome was still uncertain, but beautiful displays of fireworks instilled a sense of hope and patriotism in the citizens of the young nation. When trade relations were established between the U.S. and China less than a century later, Chinese firecrackers became a major import in America.
For nearly 1000 years, the only colors that could be produced by fireworks was the orange flash/sparks from black powder, and white sparks from metal powders. But in southern Italy in the 1830s, scientific advancements in the field of chemistry enabled pyrotechnicians (the modern term for the old "fire masters") to create reds, greens, blues, and yellows by adding both a metallic salt (strontium=red, barium=green, copper=blue, sodium=yellow) and a chlorinated powder to the firework composition. Potassium chlorate (KClO3), a new oxidizer that burned faster and hotter than potassium nitrate, allowed pyrotechnicians to make the new colors deeper and brighter. The harnessing of electrical energy made it possible to obtain pure magnesium and aluminum by electrolysis, which also made fireworks burn brighter. When fine aluminum powder was mixed proportionally with an oxidizer, the resulting mixture - flash powder - burned much hotter and faster than black powder, allowing for the manufacture of louder firecrackers and salutes in aerial fireworks.
Friday, July 1, 2011
4th of July Traditions
July Fourth is our American Independence Day and celebrates our spirit of Patriotism and Freedom. The only holiday dedicated to America, 4th of July is associated with many traditions the major ones of which are discussed here as well as some of my childhood ones.
The day has forever been associated with favorite customs like fireworks, parades, barbecues, beer, picnics, baseball, outdoor parties, public and private events honoring the nation etc. Being a summer holiday, most events and entertaining takes place outdoors.
Growing up the kids on the block and my cousins would get together for some football in the street. We’d break into teams of six on six and maybe one of the Dad’s would play a full time quarterback for a game or two before he would have to refill his beer. Mom would yell, “CAR!” and we would stop play to go to either side of the street to let them by. Then we would resume right where we left off.
Picnics and Barbecues have become Fourth of July traditions due to many reasons. The first reason being that summer is a lovely time to be spent outdoors and the second being that these two are easiest way to entertain a large number of guests.
We always had more people than we had tables and chairs for our BBQs (a testament to my mom’s cooking!!) and dad and I always had to pull out the saw horses and planks of wood, covered with a makeshift tablecloth, to help hold all the food. Since we never had enough chairs there was the standing rule grown-ups get the chairs kids can sit on the grass or a blanket.
Public events are common in most cities with state politicians making an appearance for giving patriotic speeches. Singing of the national Anthem and other patriotic songs is also common. Fourth of July parades are mostly held in the morning with red, white and blue decorated floats.
Baseball, Football and Frisbee Games and other outdoor and beach games are popular. There also usually a host of activities for kids like face painting, fairs and carnivals etc. organized at various public places.
Patriotic displays are commonly seen everywhere. People customarily deck their houses with flags, buntings and streamers in Red, White and Blue, the colors of the American flag. Even the clothing worn by people on Fourth of July reflects the colors and designs of the Flag.
For more information on the History and Traditions for Fourth of July and other useful ideas for Fourth of July Parties, Fourth of July Recipes, Decorations and Free Downloads and Printables, visit Celebrating-FourthJuly.com
Share some of your stories with us!
The day has forever been associated with favorite customs like fireworks, parades, barbecues, beer, picnics, baseball, outdoor parties, public and private events honoring the nation etc. Being a summer holiday, most events and entertaining takes place outdoors.
Growing up the kids on the block and my cousins would get together for some football in the street. We’d break into teams of six on six and maybe one of the Dad’s would play a full time quarterback for a game or two before he would have to refill his beer. Mom would yell, “CAR!” and we would stop play to go to either side of the street to let them by. Then we would resume right where we left off.
Picnics and Barbecues have become Fourth of July traditions due to many reasons. The first reason being that summer is a lovely time to be spent outdoors and the second being that these two are easiest way to entertain a large number of guests.
We always had more people than we had tables and chairs for our BBQs (a testament to my mom’s cooking!!) and dad and I always had to pull out the saw horses and planks of wood, covered with a makeshift tablecloth, to help hold all the food. Since we never had enough chairs there was the standing rule grown-ups get the chairs kids can sit on the grass or a blanket.
Public events are common in most cities with state politicians making an appearance for giving patriotic speeches. Singing of the national Anthem and other patriotic songs is also common. Fourth of July parades are mostly held in the morning with red, white and blue decorated floats.
Baseball, Football and Frisbee Games and other outdoor and beach games are popular. There also usually a host of activities for kids like face painting, fairs and carnivals etc. organized at various public places.
Patriotic displays are commonly seen everywhere. People customarily deck their houses with flags, buntings and streamers in Red, White and Blue, the colors of the American flag. Even the clothing worn by people on Fourth of July reflects the colors and designs of the Flag.
For more information on the History and Traditions for Fourth of July and other useful ideas for Fourth of July Parties, Fourth of July Recipes, Decorations and Free Downloads and Printables, visit Celebrating-FourthJuly.com
Share some of your stories with us!
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Subway and bus directions for eight domestic (New York, Boston, and Washington, D.C., among others) and two international (Paris and London) cities.
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Public restroom locations for more than 120 countries.
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Travel advisories covering everything from civil unrest to health concerns.
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Lists phone numbers for more than 100 domestic and international airlines.
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Comprehensive subway maps for 250–300 cities worldwide.
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Friday, June 17, 2011
Give Up or Find New Inspiration!
Whenever I feel like giving up, which seems like a lot more often as I get older, where do I find inspiration? How can I make myself get back on that bull that just knocked me down?
New Experiences
Inspiration can come about because of a change or seeing the possibility of change. You must search out and have new experiences in order to find inspiration. This works by seeing new places or people that can inspire you. There are many ways to find and the inspiring moments and things will different for everyone. Here are some ideas to find inspirational:
• Creative art and writing
• Stylish music and sound
• Innovation and brain science
• Life impact stories
• Underdog stories. ‘Remember the Titans’ always makes me feel good!
• Overcoming crisis and trauma
• Go a day or a week without TV
These are just a few and everyone will have their own personal favorites that interest and inspire them.
Keep An Open Mind
Once you do find new experiences, the unknown often drives fear or a defensive attitude towards it. The change that inspiration is generated from will only be held back by those initial worries or reactions so you must keep an open mind in these situations to see them from new perspectives. You want to let it shape you thoughts, change your initial response and give yourself some time to ponder the new things before denying any possible acceptance or further exploration of the subject. You never know what you could be missing if you close your mind to new ideas.
Watch Your Emotions
Emotions are often tied to that initial response but they also relate so closely to your past experiences they are often limiting or blinding what we dare to see or believe. A story that might be inspiring to one person can easily make another upset or angry based on how they relate their own experiences to that. Pay attention to your emotions, watch them carefully and try to control them. They can hide many subtle things that lead to inspiration at the wrong time or place. Keeping them under control and always trying to change the perspective you experience things in can help with getting past a negative emotional response.
Your emotions could just as easily be signals to find inspiration as often you feel deeply connected to something or you care a great deal about specific topics so you naturally gravitate and have interest their. Use this when it ties in well with the types of inspiration you want in your life.
Share the Experience
Finding inspiration comes a whole lot easier when you are actually talking about it doing that and talking with other people. This is where inspiration feeds inspiration in many cases as simply sharing one inspiring story with a friend or colleague can spark them to think of their own inspiring messages and it often waterfalls into a deeper relationship as you discuss important things between you. Each of those items shared also reveals something that has meaning to a person and knowing that thing is meaningful to them will automatically add importance to it in your life, especially if you already valued it.
Sharing stories of meaning and value are also a great way to discover new things and inspiration as well. The first step about searching for inspiration is made a whole lot simpler when other people bring those stories to you directly in conversation. Of course you will never feel the same hear about a story then experiencing it directly but often it inspires you enough to go make a similar experience yourself and get over your fears of leaving your comfort zone. Offering that same to others by sharing your experiences builds a stronger relationship where you can continue to share the inspiration and drive each other to find more of it.
Seek Out Solitude
While sharing your experience with others has it’s set of advantages and methods to find more inspiration, so does solitude at the opposite end of the spectrum. Solitude offers a way to focus your mind and body, which can allow you to tune in to your surroundings, your thoughts and your life. It lets you notice some of the things that inspire subtly and that you would have missed if stuck in a hectic noisy environment.
Solitude is also a place where we can find time for reflection and deep thinking. It helps a person link their actions and experiences to their thoughts, their hopes and their faith. Spending time in solitude can relax the mind and sharpen your senses which makes the impact of inspiration often more intense and lasting. Solitude will be different for different people, some may enjoy that time to think and study, others may meditate to relax the mind and body, and some may spend the time connecting spiritually through prayer and their internal connection to God. All these things help calm the emotions, alert the senses and help to make points of inspiration more obvious in your life, an important way to find more of the inspiration you are looking for.
Keep in Mind Your Role Models
Role models come about because they either inspire a person or make them jealous. Ask yourself what does your role model do that you like about them. Don’t look for what they have or can offer you, but only in what they do. Is it how they handle a situation, the steps they take to overcome hardship, their ability to lead and accomplish great things or perhaps it’s the methods they use to build and encourage strong relationship. Whatever it is, you can draw on that not only for seeing the inspiration but also to seek out more.
Do your role models align with the areas in your life you are passionate about? In other words, are they the source of inspiration that is most important to you? It’s worth looking at how your role models steer you as often people have role models that steer them away from the important areas of their life and do so more because of social influence than heartfelt inspiration. I’m not suggesting you carve out your role models only from what is important to you right now, as that would limit finding new inspiration, however, it is important to ensure your role models are truly impacting you with inspiration that matters to you and not just because of social influence.
Align Your Actions
While most of this step will be broken out in my next article about taking action on inspiration, I think some alignment of your actions with what inspires you will also help you find more inspiration. Taking action towards something reinforces in our minds that action and it can quickly build the neural connections in your brain to learn that new action and associated inspiration that led to it. This makes inspiration last and grow in value in your mind so putting attention to something that inspires you along with specific actions will only strengthen that. This stronger connection will drive you to seek out even more, as the value you have towards that grows stronger and stronger.
Follow Your Faith
Finding inspiration is not easy, especially in our hectic world with so many false social influences and media bombardment. Connecting what is really important to you with what you encounter is something that you must learn to do to separate the noise from the inspiration in your life. This comes as no small tasks and while the steps above might all help in that, it’s going to come down to you trusting yourself and your beliefs to actually recognize what is inspirational to you. You must learn to trust your own judgment here, no matter the source. That source of judgment is founded in the faith you have towards knowing what matters, knowing what is right and knowing you will recognize the differences as you encounter them. This faith, whether you consider it spiritual or not, is one to be followed when seeking out inspiration.
New Experiences
Inspiration can come about because of a change or seeing the possibility of change. You must search out and have new experiences in order to find inspiration. This works by seeing new places or people that can inspire you. There are many ways to find and the inspiring moments and things will different for everyone. Here are some ideas to find inspirational:
• Creative art and writing
• Stylish music and sound
• Innovation and brain science
• Life impact stories
• Underdog stories. ‘Remember the Titans’ always makes me feel good!
• Overcoming crisis and trauma
• Go a day or a week without TV
These are just a few and everyone will have their own personal favorites that interest and inspire them.
Keep An Open Mind
Once you do find new experiences, the unknown often drives fear or a defensive attitude towards it. The change that inspiration is generated from will only be held back by those initial worries or reactions so you must keep an open mind in these situations to see them from new perspectives. You want to let it shape you thoughts, change your initial response and give yourself some time to ponder the new things before denying any possible acceptance or further exploration of the subject. You never know what you could be missing if you close your mind to new ideas.
Watch Your Emotions
Emotions are often tied to that initial response but they also relate so closely to your past experiences they are often limiting or blinding what we dare to see or believe. A story that might be inspiring to one person can easily make another upset or angry based on how they relate their own experiences to that. Pay attention to your emotions, watch them carefully and try to control them. They can hide many subtle things that lead to inspiration at the wrong time or place. Keeping them under control and always trying to change the perspective you experience things in can help with getting past a negative emotional response.
Your emotions could just as easily be signals to find inspiration as often you feel deeply connected to something or you care a great deal about specific topics so you naturally gravitate and have interest their. Use this when it ties in well with the types of inspiration you want in your life.
Share the Experience
Finding inspiration comes a whole lot easier when you are actually talking about it doing that and talking with other people. This is where inspiration feeds inspiration in many cases as simply sharing one inspiring story with a friend or colleague can spark them to think of their own inspiring messages and it often waterfalls into a deeper relationship as you discuss important things between you. Each of those items shared also reveals something that has meaning to a person and knowing that thing is meaningful to them will automatically add importance to it in your life, especially if you already valued it.
Sharing stories of meaning and value are also a great way to discover new things and inspiration as well. The first step about searching for inspiration is made a whole lot simpler when other people bring those stories to you directly in conversation. Of course you will never feel the same hear about a story then experiencing it directly but often it inspires you enough to go make a similar experience yourself and get over your fears of leaving your comfort zone. Offering that same to others by sharing your experiences builds a stronger relationship where you can continue to share the inspiration and drive each other to find more of it.
Seek Out Solitude
While sharing your experience with others has it’s set of advantages and methods to find more inspiration, so does solitude at the opposite end of the spectrum. Solitude offers a way to focus your mind and body, which can allow you to tune in to your surroundings, your thoughts and your life. It lets you notice some of the things that inspire subtly and that you would have missed if stuck in a hectic noisy environment.
Solitude is also a place where we can find time for reflection and deep thinking. It helps a person link their actions and experiences to their thoughts, their hopes and their faith. Spending time in solitude can relax the mind and sharpen your senses which makes the impact of inspiration often more intense and lasting. Solitude will be different for different people, some may enjoy that time to think and study, others may meditate to relax the mind and body, and some may spend the time connecting spiritually through prayer and their internal connection to God. All these things help calm the emotions, alert the senses and help to make points of inspiration more obvious in your life, an important way to find more of the inspiration you are looking for.
Keep in Mind Your Role Models
Role models come about because they either inspire a person or make them jealous. Ask yourself what does your role model do that you like about them. Don’t look for what they have or can offer you, but only in what they do. Is it how they handle a situation, the steps they take to overcome hardship, their ability to lead and accomplish great things or perhaps it’s the methods they use to build and encourage strong relationship. Whatever it is, you can draw on that not only for seeing the inspiration but also to seek out more.
Do your role models align with the areas in your life you are passionate about? In other words, are they the source of inspiration that is most important to you? It’s worth looking at how your role models steer you as often people have role models that steer them away from the important areas of their life and do so more because of social influence than heartfelt inspiration. I’m not suggesting you carve out your role models only from what is important to you right now, as that would limit finding new inspiration, however, it is important to ensure your role models are truly impacting you with inspiration that matters to you and not just because of social influence.
Align Your Actions
While most of this step will be broken out in my next article about taking action on inspiration, I think some alignment of your actions with what inspires you will also help you find more inspiration. Taking action towards something reinforces in our minds that action and it can quickly build the neural connections in your brain to learn that new action and associated inspiration that led to it. This makes inspiration last and grow in value in your mind so putting attention to something that inspires you along with specific actions will only strengthen that. This stronger connection will drive you to seek out even more, as the value you have towards that grows stronger and stronger.
Follow Your Faith
Finding inspiration is not easy, especially in our hectic world with so many false social influences and media bombardment. Connecting what is really important to you with what you encounter is something that you must learn to do to separate the noise from the inspiration in your life. This comes as no small tasks and while the steps above might all help in that, it’s going to come down to you trusting yourself and your beliefs to actually recognize what is inspirational to you. You must learn to trust your own judgment here, no matter the source. That source of judgment is founded in the faith you have towards knowing what matters, knowing what is right and knowing you will recognize the differences as you encounter them. This faith, whether you consider it spiritual or not, is one to be followed when seeking out inspiration.
Long Distance Relationships even for a Short Time
A lot of our guests have to travel frequently and never or seldom think of the impact this has on the ones we leave behind, even if it’s for a day or two. Remember you GET what you put into any relationship. So I went out and got some tips for our road warriors to think about or use to keep the home fires burning!
Ask the important questions at the onset, to make sure you are both clear on the parameters of the relationship. Setting parameters such as naming your relationship (dating, seeing each other, boyfriend-girlfriend, engaged) as well as defining exclusive (limited to one person,) or non-exclusive. These can be difficult and awkward questions to ask, but will save you great heartache and misunderstanding down the line. Example: "Are you open to the possibility of relocating if the relationship should become more serious?" or "What are you looking to get out of the relationship?" Stating your end goal or ideas will allow each person to maintain what they need.
Consider using Skype video chat calls every day, text messaging, phone calls and email every day. It is important to maintain contact and to be in each other's daily lives as much as possible. The video feature is really great and it’s free if you det up accounts for both of you!
Do things together. Defy the distance. As a long distance couple, it's important to do other things together besides the usual phone call. In a long distance relationship, interaction over the phone can become dull in the long run. Incorporating other forms of interaction are important. Just think... People in short-distance relationships do not spend the majority of their time talking, but rather doing things with each other. Try to replicate this by finding things to do together such as watching a TV show or movie simultaneously. Here's a free list of 90 things you can do with your long distance partner
Take advantage of the benefits a long distance relationship offers: more time with friends and/or family, no arguments over toothpaste caps, the pleasure of seeing your sweetheart again after a long absence, time to mull your options (rather than snapping at your partner impulsively) before you respond to that email s/he wrote that seemed so rude the first time you read it, not being dragged into a bunch of chick flicks, etc. Most important, being far apart gives you a chance to maintain your individuality—something that can get lost in the shuffle when couples spend all their free time together. Here are additional benefits of long distance relationships.
Pursue common interests, even if it means pursuing them apart. If there's a movie you're both interested in seeing, watch it individually and then call each other afterward and talk about it. Hulu.com is a great site to go to catch up on shows even though your traveling and it’s free. Read a certain book at the same time. Stargaze while you're on the phone. Set your watches to go off at the same time every day, and synchronize your alarm with that of your partner. Make it a point to think of each other when your watch goes off, and revel in the fact that he or she is thinking about you, too. Find creative ways to bond.
Avoid jealousy and be trusting. One of the easiest ways to destroy a perfectly healthy relationship is to poison it with jealousy and drama. When you start a long distance relationship, you must be realistic of the difficulties ahead. It always helps if you go in a relationship with the idea that everyone is innocent and worthy of trust until proven otherwise. Don't fall in the trap of interrogating your partner every time he/she decides to go out for a drink with people you haven't met or he/she didn't get back to you right away when you called and left a message. Just because you are in a long-distance relationship doesn't mean your lives will pause. Your partner will naturally have a social life where he/she lives and so should you. Sure, it helps to have your eyes open and not be totally naive, but being overly suspicious is unhealthy for you and your relationship too. You should both maintain your social activity and be happy with yourselves.
Ask the important questions at the onset, to make sure you are both clear on the parameters of the relationship. Setting parameters such as naming your relationship (dating, seeing each other, boyfriend-girlfriend, engaged) as well as defining exclusive (limited to one person,) or non-exclusive. These can be difficult and awkward questions to ask, but will save you great heartache and misunderstanding down the line. Example: "Are you open to the possibility of relocating if the relationship should become more serious?" or "What are you looking to get out of the relationship?" Stating your end goal or ideas will allow each person to maintain what they need.
Consider using Skype video chat calls every day, text messaging, phone calls and email every day. It is important to maintain contact and to be in each other's daily lives as much as possible. The video feature is really great and it’s free if you det up accounts for both of you!
Do things together. Defy the distance. As a long distance couple, it's important to do other things together besides the usual phone call. In a long distance relationship, interaction over the phone can become dull in the long run. Incorporating other forms of interaction are important. Just think... People in short-distance relationships do not spend the majority of their time talking, but rather doing things with each other. Try to replicate this by finding things to do together such as watching a TV show or movie simultaneously. Here's a free list of 90 things you can do with your long distance partner
Take advantage of the benefits a long distance relationship offers: more time with friends and/or family, no arguments over toothpaste caps, the pleasure of seeing your sweetheart again after a long absence, time to mull your options (rather than snapping at your partner impulsively) before you respond to that email s/he wrote that seemed so rude the first time you read it, not being dragged into a bunch of chick flicks, etc. Most important, being far apart gives you a chance to maintain your individuality—something that can get lost in the shuffle when couples spend all their free time together. Here are additional benefits of long distance relationships.
Pursue common interests, even if it means pursuing them apart. If there's a movie you're both interested in seeing, watch it individually and then call each other afterward and talk about it. Hulu.com is a great site to go to catch up on shows even though your traveling and it’s free. Read a certain book at the same time. Stargaze while you're on the phone. Set your watches to go off at the same time every day, and synchronize your alarm with that of your partner. Make it a point to think of each other when your watch goes off, and revel in the fact that he or she is thinking about you, too. Find creative ways to bond.
Avoid jealousy and be trusting. One of the easiest ways to destroy a perfectly healthy relationship is to poison it with jealousy and drama. When you start a long distance relationship, you must be realistic of the difficulties ahead. It always helps if you go in a relationship with the idea that everyone is innocent and worthy of trust until proven otherwise. Don't fall in the trap of interrogating your partner every time he/she decides to go out for a drink with people you haven't met or he/she didn't get back to you right away when you called and left a message. Just because you are in a long-distance relationship doesn't mean your lives will pause. Your partner will naturally have a social life where he/she lives and so should you. Sure, it helps to have your eyes open and not be totally naive, but being overly suspicious is unhealthy for you and your relationship too. You should both maintain your social activity and be happy with yourselves.
Friday, June 10, 2011
Villains of Summer!
The bad guys have taken over the box office! As Loki looks to serve his brother, Thor, up to the goddess of the dead in the film that kicked off the summer it made the statement, ‘villains make the movie.’ You can look at this summer’s list of movies and if you like the villain or really hate him then you’ll probably like the movie.
I’m impressed with the line up of summer movies and the bad guys lined up to take shots at the good guys. Whether that’s from something for the kids with, Lord Shen in ‘Kung Fu Panda’ to a serious drama with Uday Hussein in ‘The Devils Double,’ and back again to the special effects extravaganza of Lord Voldemort in ‘Harry Potter and the Deathly Hallows, Part 2.’ These bad guys are what makes a movie SOMETHING!
But it doesn’t do much for us the hotel. Could you imagine coming your favorite hotel only to find out that Freddy the gloved knife-wielding front desk agent took your luggage and hid it away from you. Maybe that’s not so bad because Freddy always hides everything in the boiler room.
Then there’s Jason the masked maintenance guy who got your thermostat stuck at 90 degrees and the only tool he brought to fix it was a machete. You know how hard it is to press those tiny buttons with a machete not to mention the mud those big boots of his tracks in.
Let’s not forget the self-conscious, scared of her shadow but don’t make her mad, housekeeper Carrie. Somehow she can vacuum, mop, and clean the bathroom by just staring intently at your room. It’s just when you ask for extra towels that things go wrong.
All these villains don’t add up to a comfortable stay for you here at Courtyard by Marriott in Pasadena but don’t worry there are no villains here. And maybe after your stay here you might even have a new hero or two for your summer travels!
I’m impressed with the line up of summer movies and the bad guys lined up to take shots at the good guys. Whether that’s from something for the kids with, Lord Shen in ‘Kung Fu Panda’ to a serious drama with Uday Hussein in ‘The Devils Double,’ and back again to the special effects extravaganza of Lord Voldemort in ‘Harry Potter and the Deathly Hallows, Part 2.’ These bad guys are what makes a movie SOMETHING!
But it doesn’t do much for us the hotel. Could you imagine coming your favorite hotel only to find out that Freddy the gloved knife-wielding front desk agent took your luggage and hid it away from you. Maybe that’s not so bad because Freddy always hides everything in the boiler room.
Then there’s Jason the masked maintenance guy who got your thermostat stuck at 90 degrees and the only tool he brought to fix it was a machete. You know how hard it is to press those tiny buttons with a machete not to mention the mud those big boots of his tracks in.
Let’s not forget the self-conscious, scared of her shadow but don’t make her mad, housekeeper Carrie. Somehow she can vacuum, mop, and clean the bathroom by just staring intently at your room. It’s just when you ask for extra towels that things go wrong.
All these villains don’t add up to a comfortable stay for you here at Courtyard by Marriott in Pasadena but don’t worry there are no villains here. And maybe after your stay here you might even have a new hero or two for your summer travels!
Hot Rides for the Summer
Ok I’m going to warn you now… if you show up at our hotel in one of these three HOT new cars you may find me next to it oogling over your car. And if you’re thinking about a new summer car these are my first choices:
Aston Martin has done a remarkable job designing each and every one of its cars in a way that appeals to both the style-minded and performance-obsessed buyer. For some, however, the body lines and badge letters begin to blur somewhere between the DB9 and DBS models, to a degree in which it is almost impossible for a prospective buyer to distinguish between the two. Now, to fill the gap between the 470 hp DB9 and the 510 hp DBS, the British automaker adds yet another model to its ever-growing family of vehicles: the Virage.
Equipped with the same 6-liter V-12 engine as its DB-designated counterparts, the Virage fits perfectly in between the DB9 and DBS models—producing 490 hp. The Virage, however, is not about splitting the difference between the two DB models; it is about finding that perfect balance between a hard-edged sports car and a big-engine tourer.
Weighing in at just under 4,000 pounds, the Virage may not be as lithe or nimble as a true sports car, but it still manages to sprint to 60 mph in under 4.5 seconds and carry on to a top speed of 186 mph. Despite these performance credentials, drivers will notice that the car is well mannered enough to keep tea from spilling all over your passenger’s lap—or even worse, the dash. This smooth ride is due in large part to Aston Martin’s VH architecture—the basis for cars like the DBS and Rapide—on which the British automaker continues to build each model better than the one that came before.
At $209,995, the Virage comes dangerously close to the performance credentials of the DBS coupe, while keeping much of the touring character of the DB9. To say that the Virage is the best of both worlds may be a stretch, but it certainly has its place in the British automaker’s stable.
Those familiar with the Porsche brand know that the letters “RS” are strictly reserved for the most extreme iteration of a specific model line. The Porsche GT3 RS, for instance, is just shy of qualifying as a track-only model, and the forthcoming GT2 RS certainly follows suit. With roughly 500 examples slated for worldwide production, this limited-edition model was developed with serious collectors and the most devout Porschephiles in mind. So what makes this model stand out from the “standard” Porsche GT2? It all starts with the power train. While Ferrari, Lamborghini, and Aston Martin all rely on V-12 engines to power their top-of-the-line performers, Porsche engineers continue to squeeze every ounce of performance from their tried-and-true in-line 6-cylinder motor. With a massaged version of the 3.6-liter twin-turbocharged engine found in the last year’s GT2, the RS model cranks out an additional 90 horsepower, upping output to 620 hp. This added power helps the GT2 RS reach its 205-mph top speed and claimed 0-to-60-mph time of 3.4 seconds. Believe it or not: Porsche is actually notorious for being conservative with this figure. To top it all off, this tuned-up 911 weighs in at an ultra-svelte 3,020 pounds, making it as light—and as lithe—as a Lotus Evora. The most important statistic, however (especially if you ask Porsche) is the GT2 RS’s Nürburgring lap time of 7 minutes and 18 seconds. This über-Porsche is priced around $250,000, which is a small price to pay for anyone interested in owning the fastest, most powerful road-going Porsche ever made.
When the V-8-engined Audi R8 trounced its Car of the Year competition two years ago, it sent a wake-up call to those marques that were resting on their exotic, mid-engined laurels. Practical but possessing great finesse, Audi’s sports car set a new benchmark as the sensible supercar. With the V-10 engine came additional power and performance, and now the Spyder adds top-down fun to the original love-it-or-hate-it design. This exotic daily driver is as amiable in the parking lot as it is on the open road. But the rasping exhaust gives voice to a potent V-10 that begs to be revved and taken through the gears. Make mine the 6-speed manual, please.
Addition by Subtraction
Audi’s R8 was innovation enough. Then came a V-10 version, and the world’s sports-car market shuddered. Now the R8 V10 has become a convertible, which only intensifies the exhilaration the coupe delivers. Most roadsters are just coupes rendered topless, but the R8 Spyder has undergone reconstructive surgery that included removing the broad strakes attached to the coupe’s flanks. Their absence reveals intake ducts that help cool the 525 hp V-10 and add menace to the car’s rugged beauty. Handling is precise and predictable—not necessarily what one expects from a 195 mph two-seater.
Back for Seconds
The R8 Spyder impressed on every level. In addition to praising its performance and handling, judges lauded the car’s mechanically magnificent retractable top and its redesigned body panels. The Spyder has lost the side blades that adorn the coupe—which placed second in last year’s Car of the Year competition, its performance prowess barely overshadowed by the panache of the gullwing-doored Mercedes-Benz SLS AMG—and added styling that appears, dare we say, Italian. The look is fitting, considering that the car’s 5.2-liter V-10 engine is similar to the one that powers the Gallardo LP 560-4 by Lamborghini, a subsidiary of Audi.
SPECIFICATIONS
Configuration Mid-engine, all-wheel-drive convertible Engine 5.2-liter V-10 Transmission 6-speed manual or 6-speed R tronic Power 525 hp at 8,000 rpm Torque 391 ft lbs at 6,500 rpm Curb weight 3,957 pounds (manual), 3,968 pounds (R tronic) Zero to 60 4 seconds Top speed 195 mph Base price $161,000.
Aston Martin has done a remarkable job designing each and every one of its cars in a way that appeals to both the style-minded and performance-obsessed buyer. For some, however, the body lines and badge letters begin to blur somewhere between the DB9 and DBS models, to a degree in which it is almost impossible for a prospective buyer to distinguish between the two. Now, to fill the gap between the 470 hp DB9 and the 510 hp DBS, the British automaker adds yet another model to its ever-growing family of vehicles: the Virage.
Equipped with the same 6-liter V-12 engine as its DB-designated counterparts, the Virage fits perfectly in between the DB9 and DBS models—producing 490 hp. The Virage, however, is not about splitting the difference between the two DB models; it is about finding that perfect balance between a hard-edged sports car and a big-engine tourer.
Weighing in at just under 4,000 pounds, the Virage may not be as lithe or nimble as a true sports car, but it still manages to sprint to 60 mph in under 4.5 seconds and carry on to a top speed of 186 mph. Despite these performance credentials, drivers will notice that the car is well mannered enough to keep tea from spilling all over your passenger’s lap—or even worse, the dash. This smooth ride is due in large part to Aston Martin’s VH architecture—the basis for cars like the DBS and Rapide—on which the British automaker continues to build each model better than the one that came before.
At $209,995, the Virage comes dangerously close to the performance credentials of the DBS coupe, while keeping much of the touring character of the DB9. To say that the Virage is the best of both worlds may be a stretch, but it certainly has its place in the British automaker’s stable.
Those familiar with the Porsche brand know that the letters “RS” are strictly reserved for the most extreme iteration of a specific model line. The Porsche GT3 RS, for instance, is just shy of qualifying as a track-only model, and the forthcoming GT2 RS certainly follows suit. With roughly 500 examples slated for worldwide production, this limited-edition model was developed with serious collectors and the most devout Porschephiles in mind. So what makes this model stand out from the “standard” Porsche GT2? It all starts with the power train. While Ferrari, Lamborghini, and Aston Martin all rely on V-12 engines to power their top-of-the-line performers, Porsche engineers continue to squeeze every ounce of performance from their tried-and-true in-line 6-cylinder motor. With a massaged version of the 3.6-liter twin-turbocharged engine found in the last year’s GT2, the RS model cranks out an additional 90 horsepower, upping output to 620 hp. This added power helps the GT2 RS reach its 205-mph top speed and claimed 0-to-60-mph time of 3.4 seconds. Believe it or not: Porsche is actually notorious for being conservative with this figure. To top it all off, this tuned-up 911 weighs in at an ultra-svelte 3,020 pounds, making it as light—and as lithe—as a Lotus Evora. The most important statistic, however (especially if you ask Porsche) is the GT2 RS’s Nürburgring lap time of 7 minutes and 18 seconds. This über-Porsche is priced around $250,000, which is a small price to pay for anyone interested in owning the fastest, most powerful road-going Porsche ever made.
When the V-8-engined Audi R8 trounced its Car of the Year competition two years ago, it sent a wake-up call to those marques that were resting on their exotic, mid-engined laurels. Practical but possessing great finesse, Audi’s sports car set a new benchmark as the sensible supercar. With the V-10 engine came additional power and performance, and now the Spyder adds top-down fun to the original love-it-or-hate-it design. This exotic daily driver is as amiable in the parking lot as it is on the open road. But the rasping exhaust gives voice to a potent V-10 that begs to be revved and taken through the gears. Make mine the 6-speed manual, please.
Addition by Subtraction
Audi’s R8 was innovation enough. Then came a V-10 version, and the world’s sports-car market shuddered. Now the R8 V10 has become a convertible, which only intensifies the exhilaration the coupe delivers. Most roadsters are just coupes rendered topless, but the R8 Spyder has undergone reconstructive surgery that included removing the broad strakes attached to the coupe’s flanks. Their absence reveals intake ducts that help cool the 525 hp V-10 and add menace to the car’s rugged beauty. Handling is precise and predictable—not necessarily what one expects from a 195 mph two-seater.
Back for Seconds
The R8 Spyder impressed on every level. In addition to praising its performance and handling, judges lauded the car’s mechanically magnificent retractable top and its redesigned body panels. The Spyder has lost the side blades that adorn the coupe—which placed second in last year’s Car of the Year competition, its performance prowess barely overshadowed by the panache of the gullwing-doored Mercedes-Benz SLS AMG—and added styling that appears, dare we say, Italian. The look is fitting, considering that the car’s 5.2-liter V-10 engine is similar to the one that powers the Gallardo LP 560-4 by Lamborghini, a subsidiary of Audi.
SPECIFICATIONS
Configuration Mid-engine, all-wheel-drive convertible Engine 5.2-liter V-10 Transmission 6-speed manual or 6-speed R tronic Power 525 hp at 8,000 rpm Torque 391 ft lbs at 6,500 rpm Curb weight 3,957 pounds (manual), 3,968 pounds (R tronic) Zero to 60 4 seconds Top speed 195 mph Base price $161,000.
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